Meet Jim

Come from a strict religious family where sexual repression was served for breakfast, lunch and dinner

· Feel isolated and alone as a young person with no guidance about sexuality

· Be a clumsy teenager — embarrassed and so full of fear that I didn’t have intercourse until my early 20s

· Experience “sexual flatline” with my live-in girlfriend (only having sex once every 2-3 months)

· Stand by impotently as my fiancé moved out of our home to be with another guy

· Become depressed for months at a time about my lack of sexual interactions

I’ve committed my life to helping men have breakthroughs in the bedroom

Because of these experiences as a child, teenager and young man, I had zero confidence about my sexuality. I wasn’t even sure what “confidence” might look like!

Then, on a whim, I went to a men’s group

Much to my amazement, I realized I wasn’t alone. More than one guy in the group had a story like mine. I was inspired: If I ever figured out this “sex stuff,” I would pay it forward and help other men get out of the pit of sexual inadequacy I knew so well.

I became a man on a mission

Determined to learn everything I could about being a truly great lover, I spent the next decade and tens of thousands of dollars on workshops and one-on-one coaching so I could study with the world’s best sexual educators.

Over time, I learned how to last as long as I wanted to in bed

I discovered how to bring a woman to orgasm after orgasm over and over again. Not just with my hands and mouth (although I did become skilled at this), but through intercourse, too — which is what women really want.

Instead of heading to bed feeling insecure and anxious, I climbed in next to her feeling excited, sexy and confident, knowing I could bring her more and more ecstatic pleasure every night we spent together. There’s nothing quite like seeing a woman look at you with total awe, adoration, and love after you’ve given her a night of body-quaking orgasms!


I finally felt satisfied with myself as a sexual man.

I could walk around in the world as a confident and sexually alive man. I stood with more strength in my spine. I felt more connected to those around me. And I found that many other aspects of my life began to benefit from this unique personal power.​

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I never forgot my promise to help men who were struggling to make sense of their sex lives

To that end, I attended a tantra teacher training. I then began co-leading tantra events in the U.S. and Europe with the woman who brought tantra to the West, Margot Anand (author of The Art of Sexual Ecstasy). I also studied extensively with a number of other teachers and organizations, including David Deida, The Human Awareness Institute, and MORE University.

In order to acquire more tools to help men overcome their unhealthy sexual patterns and beliefs, I went back to school to train as a counselor, and also became a Professional Certified Coach. 

And even though I’ve had dozens of breakthroughs in my sexual life, I’m still learning and growing. I’m continuously exploring my “sexual edge,” and learning what it means to be a Sexually Integrated Man myself.


I’ve committed my life to helping men have breakthroughs in the bedroom