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How to see women for who they are

Do one of these ways of viewing and treating women ring true for you? 1) Putting the Pussy on a Pedestal. I think that phrase comes from a popular movie a few years back. If you’ve done this once (or many times) before, you know what I’m talking about: You mentally...

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Relationship Flatline (And the Incest Taboo)

If you live with a woman, have you ever wondered if there’s some mysterious force that is actively de-sexualizing your love life? A force that’s so strong and unconscious, it’s almost as if you’re powerless to keep it from happening? I hear about this all the time...

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The three sex styles. Which one will women say is yours?

Sex — an act as innate as eating and breathing for most animals — can be nothing short of a confusing mess to humans. During sex, it’s usually tough to track what’s going on at any given time — physically, emotionally and energetically. Everything is happening at...

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It’s time for some squirrel sex!

Yep. That's right. I’m suggesting that you have sex LIKE a squirrel. Not WITH a squirrel. That's a post for another time 😉 OK, OK, I’ll explain. Yesterday I was watching two squirrels play in the redwood grove in my backyard. I know they were playing...

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Say the One Thing to “Shock her into Love”

You know those times when the woman you're with is talking about something that she doesn't really care about, and you're only half-listening, because you know she doesn't care? What do you do when that's happening? Do you just keep pretending to listen,...

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Dave Chappelle goes off!

Watch Dave Chappelle ROCK the premature ejaculator label! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q3iT5PupBhM There's a lot to enjoy in this clip, but one of the things I love the most is Dave's lack of shame about ejaculating early: "If I come, man, it was...

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Kiss her like there’s no tomorrow

Think about the last time you kissed a woman on the lips. (Or a guy, if you're gay or a straight woman.) I'm not talking about a friendly kiss — like a "peck" on the mouth — but a kiss of some length. Maybe it was with your wife, your girlfriend, or a girl you...

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Your porn habit and the film “Don Jon”

Watching the movie Don Jon stirred up a lot for me. Have you seen it? If not — and if you're interested in seeing a well-done portrayal of how of internet porn affects young men these days — I recommend you watch it right away. The movie is about a...

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